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The gay rights movement has become so successful, that it’s not uncommon for you to see guys kissing right out in public, and I suspect that a large part of that has been tied to the general acceptance of sex itself as a fundamental part of social life as exposed by the widespread prevalence of porn on the Internet. It was only about 20 years ago that being gay was a taboo subject outside of a few national hotspots like San Francisco and New York City, and even there, it would be rare to see guys kissing in public, and its general acceptance by mainstream culture has mirrored that of the Internet’s growth as a staple part of our everyday lives.

Perhaps it is due to the fact that people have become more accepting of adult material, including the very mention of the word sex as a topic, and so too, have they accepted that what some people are naturally attracted to varies from individual to individual, so seeing two hunks kissing for a gay man could be openly equated with the notion that a straight man would enjoy watching a girls and hunks kissing. The fact that now men, both gay and straight, are getting their porn from the same online adult media networks, has somewhat secretively given all men a common bond around the activity of seeking out and watching porn.

It might be that one key part is that men are performing together in sex scenes even in straight ‘mainstream’ porn flicks with a girl and two hunks, kissing may be left to the girl-guy exchange, but these presumably ‘straight’ men are basically slamming their balls against each other while they DP these chicks. Maybe seeing two guys kissing is still another big step away from gay porn for most, but I think there might be something to the correlation between the development of the omnipresent nature of modern porn, and our growing acceptance of homosexuality in society.

It’s almost an insult to the gay community that so many of gay porn films seem to ignore the more sensitive nature of guy on guy porn scenes that more accurately reflect how homosexuals engage in sexual activity. I wonder sometimes if these gay porn films that tend to generalize the gay sexual community as entirely polygamous, with gang-bangs, group sex, and all out orgies claiming the majority of screen time in feature length gay adult releases. I don’t think it’s a positive message to the gay community that this is the standard and expected behavior of all gays, and it certainly reinforces negative stereotypes within the straight community about the lasciviousness of homosexuals in general.

I, for one, and strictly monogamous with my partner, and we only practice SAFE guy on guy, meaning one-on-one, sex with each other and have done so for over 10 years. In every real and meaningful way, our relationship is the same as any straight couples relationship, including the fact that we have raised a 5 year old boy together, who is apparently straight himself and very happy with his progress in life (to the extent that we can tell). As we remain a part of the effort to legalize marriage for homosexuals in our state, it often occurs to us that the gay porn industry does not help our efforts very much, especially with its portrayal of sexually irresponsible sex acts, such as having a gangbang involving 5 guys; none of whom are wearing any condoms.

Guy on guy porn might still be a tawdry subject for most, and I don’t expect the industry to completely ignore the genres which are demanded by the gay community, but when you consider that many gay youth are heavily influenced by what they read about and see on the Internet, there is also a case around social responsibility to be made for having gay porn that more accurately reflects the caring and meaningful relationships that many in the gay community strive for, and even fight for the rights to have these bonds recognized by the law.

As I sit back and watch two guys fucking on my 50” flat screen plasma television, I must say that being gay in the modern technology driven era certainly has some distinct advantages over gay life even 50 years ago. Asides from the obvious elements of having a generally more accepting public opinion of homosexuality, life in the gay sub-culture has been greatly enhanced by the advancement of the Internet, DVDs, and as I sit here in my plush leather sofa beating off to gay porn on a huge monitor in front of me: cool Plasma and LCD flat screen TVs: where watching guys fucking has never been more lifelike or realistic.

Seriously, can you imagine being gay in the 60’s and having to hide your sexual orientation for fear of being ostracized from the public? There was no one to talk to about your personal issues, no one to connect with, and it was only in specific enclaves like San Francisco and New York where gays could openly seek out relationships with other similarly sexually oriented individuals. Now there are social communities all over the internet, including mainstream dating sites, which help gays meet and get to know each other in a safe protected environment.

And my personal favorite, gay pay per view websites that I can watch the hottest new gay releases right in the comfort of my living room, streamed in real time with no waiting for extensive downloads and without having to sign up for expensive subscription services. I don’t even have to leave the comfort of my own home to go to the adult video store for DVDs anymore, as I’ve hooked my hot new monitor up to my computer and can watch it just like I was watching a movie on my DVD player. And with high-resolution file formats that look great on my 50” of viewing wall space, watching gay guys fucking has never been more realistic: except perhaps in those on-stage sex acts you used to hear about, but I think those are still not as hot as what’s in today’s gay porn movies.

When I come across a gay sex scene featuring twinks fucking hunks, I have to stop to download and appreciate the wonderful paradox of a little scrawny body ass fucking a strapped and cut muscled stud. There’s something very ‘role-reversal’ about the whole thing, almost like the empowerment of a transsexual in the domination position over a clean dressed gay business man, or the weak kid in gym class fucking the shit out of his dominant jock peers.

Maybe this is an insight into my personal past, when I was the skinny effeminate kid that was always teased as being girly, and even though I knew I was different, I still wanted to be around the cool guys in my class, and secretly hoped one of them would turn out to be hiding a secret as sensual as mine. As an older guy, now I feel a bit nostalgic when it comes to fucking hunks, as my closest partners were always fit and health minded jocks, and despite my attempts to keep up with them by tagging along in the gym, where I actually met several of these stunning guys, I could never seem to put any muscle on my twiggy physique, despite shedding pounds and pounds of sweat. Nothing turned me on more than getting back home from the gym, we’d never bother to shower until we got home, and then fucking hunks in my bathroom with their hands on the sink counter and my red face fervently peering over their strong shoulders as I banged incessantly against their well defined waist lines.

When I look back on it, I guess the true paradox is that a wimpy limp-wristed fruitcake like myself ended up finding most of my lifetime sex partners in a place where athletic prowess and personally fitness are held at a premium.

What would the gay porn world be without bears, hunks, and twinks? Really, it was not so long ago when gay porn was an entire genre in itself- back in the days when it was just a subcategory of mainstream porn sites, and hardly an industry in its own right. But as the demand for gay porn grew in the late 90’s and from 2000 on, it has gained tremendous traction as the gay adult media market has latched on to the Internet as a tech savvy market demographic that has claimed it’s own role in producing hot gay porn.

As gay porn mega-sites emerged that catered exclusively to the online gay adult market, categories of content began to divide the mountains of porn that was hosted in these sites, and these sub categories soon became the monikers for gay porn types such as bears, hunks, jocks, twinks, tops, bottoms, and many other diverse descriptions of gay porn scenes.

As the gay industry grew and production became driven by gay producers and directors, industry awards exclusively for the gay market emerged, such as the GAVYN Awards, and this put an emphasis on awarding gay characterizations according to performances in various gay sexual roles. Bears, hunks, and so on are not easily compared to one another in a head to head competition, largely in part to the fact that each is so characteristically different that the other yet holds a strong following of consumers that actively seek out their particular gay sexuality theme. It’s almost like gender identification within the gay community, and many men are singularly attracted only one particular type of homo. While it may be construed as a division of the gay community, it also can be viewed as a symbol of the growth in social acceptance of homosexual’s ability to express their sexuality outside the stereotypes of the fruity, pink dress wearing effeminate limp-wristed faggots that many outsiders consider to be the epitome of gay porn.

When you consider the severity of the consequences of having unprotected sex in gay porn scenes, you should not accept the risk of performing with out condoms as a gay performer no matter what you are offered for bareback pay. Even though you might be tempted by high premiums in the thousands of dollars for a simple four hour production shoot for taking it in the ass without protection, the ‘bare’ facts are that there is a significant risk of contracting STDs, including deadly viruses such as HIV/AIDS, as well as HPV, Herpes, and Syphilis that can haunt your sex life and personal relationships forever.

Even if performers who do bareback pay for regular testing and certification, there is still no guarantee that their results reflect an accurate reading of their current health record unless they have remained totally abstinent for at least 6 months, as any reliable HIV test can only detect infections that have been incubated for at least 6 months, making virtually all gay adult performer’s screening tests irrelevant. Similarly, even if there was some regulation to monitor the sexual activity of performers for six months prior to testing, there is virtually no way of accurately enforcing this, and expecting a bunch of horny young homos to keep their dicks in their hands for six months is asking more than is reasonable.

So the only real solution is to allow performers who perform exclusively with a single partner, which is usually also their real life lover, to be allowed to perform in unprotected sex scenes and let them earn the bareback pay, but even this system is flawed as people are not exactly 100% reliable in terms of faithfulness, and even one infidelity could lead to an unprotected scene producing an infection. Although in this case, it seems as though the infection would have occurred one way or another, as they presumable would have been having sex off screen as well.

Nothing demonstrates hard core ass slamming gay porn action than guys with big balls pounding away at each other while their testicles hammer together like a fleshy set of those metal pendulum stress balls in a 7.0 earthquake. I sometimes consider myself fortunate not to have enormous balls as a gay man, and have told that he appreciates not having his man-bits slammed when I enter from behind by my partner when we’re in the doggy-style position. But I must confess, when I’m watching porn, I love seeing guys with big balls boning each other from behind with the camera focused on their swinging ball sacks from the position between both the performer’s legs.

It’s really an amazing sight, to see one cock just thrusting in and out while the enormous nuts slap violently against the sack of the sub as he takes the pounding cock and testicle package with great enthusiasm. It’s even better when they really get sweaty, and the sweat collects on their testicles and is smattered onto the camera lens as it is splashed from their soaked testicles as their scrotums careen against each other, and occasionally stick together between brutal shoves of one man into the other.

I guess you could say that there’s even more visual footage of a gay guys balls in gay porn than of the actual shaft and head of the dicks themselves. The balls are somewhat featured in virtually every scene involving the penis, but also have the distinction of being featured quite prominently even in scenes where the cock itself is hidden or consumed by a bodily orifice. In some ways that justifies my obsession with large nut sacks, as I presume I’ve seen more testicle on testicle action in my gay porn watching days than actual cock footage- and what we do tend to see is just a peek of the cock as it’s engulfed orally and anally.

If you wanted to see little skinny dorks take it up the ass, you’d watch twink porn, but if it’s tightly chiseled bodies beating each other into a sweaty pulp of man goo that you’re after, you’d head straight for the gay jock porn section of your favorite adult website. Think about it, would you shop for a big screen TV in the kitchen accessories section of the supermarket? NO- you’d head straight for the home electronics section (and hopefully pick one up that let’s you connect it to your computer- trust me it’s a great way to watch gay porn at home).

Jock porn is basically every gay body builder’s dream: both in terms of performing in and watching porn from this genre. Think about it, if you’re a gay adult performer who works out fastidiously, then you’re going to get cast in roles that accentuate your muscular physique, and these roles often cater to the athletic fantasy genre, such as sports coaches, soldiers, police men, firefighters, and of course: high school and college jocks.

There’s just nothing more raw and sexy than the image of a sweaty, dirty, exhausted athlete changing out of a muddied uniform with a few cuts and bruises on his manly body from a well earned victory. It just makes me wanna run up to him, pull off his jock, and reward him for his valiant efforts on the ball field. And I must admit, I had a few secret crushes on some of the straight boys I grew up playing baseball with, and I sometimes fantasize about sexy shower scenes involving me and a group of celebratory teammates soaping up and showing down together. These are the fantasies I look for when I’m in the mood for jock porn, and I will always know it’s a dependable resource for the most hot muscular dudes in gay porn.

While there are certainly multiple elements of European Gay porn that turns me on, the most exciting difference between European and American porn, is that the Euro porn features so many hot young uncut dudes. Not that I don’t appreciate an American cock with it’s bulbous head sticking out distinctly from it’s shaft like a young boa constrictor swallowing an apple, but there’s also something uniquely erotic about a fully sheathed penis on a sweaty group chiseled uncut dudes.

Another feature I really appreciate is their sexy European tongues, and I’m not just talking about their oral skills, er…blowjob skills, but those sultry foreign languages they use when their enjoying deep head skills or pounding away at some little tart’s ass. I don’t care about learning other languages, but I always try to remember the words for ‘fuck me harder’ from these sexy ethnic men.

There’s also just a style of International porn that is a bit less crass and ‘reality’ driven in International gay porn. So German might be a little too hardcore and techno driven, but a lot of the romance languages tend to produce softer more elegant gay porn that really brings out the sensitivity I associate with uncut dudes.

But I guess as a niche or fetish genre, uncut dude flicks have one significant drawback, as the fetish somewhat relies on full view of the cocks in action. This puts a premium on bareback sex scenes that put the actors themselves at risk. In addition to this, men with uncircumcised penises are 10-15% more at risk for STD infections, which makes them a more vulnerable group in terms of being exposed to the risks of performing with out protective prophylactics.

While I understand that as a fan of this genre, I hope they can find a way to let the uncut performers do their thing without the interference of condoms, I can certainly understand and accept in uncircumcised gay adult performers are reduced to having to wear protection in all their shoots.

When it comes to defining my hot gay list for the different types of gay stereotypes out there, fresh twinks will always be my partners of choice. It’s not that I’m the gay version of a pedophile, but I do appreciate their slender physique, and with my slightly overweight and extremely hairy body, I don’t like having to fight for space in the bed. That’s why I think the hot gays are the ones with small statures, lots of energy, and generally smaller cocks that fit nicely in my large hairy ass.

That’s right, I’m actually a bit of a bear that likes to be on the bottom, and prefer to get head from a little boi with a cute mouth and boyish charms and then turn over and let him go crazy on my ass: that’s at the very top of my hot gay list of sexual fantasies. Hot gay boys that are still getting used to their place and role in the gay social community also seem to appreciate my caring nature and confidence in showing them how to suck another man’s cock, and I’m quite able to give them all the encouragement they need to get rock hard and shove their little twink rods into my ass. Especially with young hot gays that are new to living out their gay sexual urges, I sometimes imagine that they are releasing a lifetime of pent up oppression on my seasoned ass, and feel like I’m giving them a channel for the release of this negative energy and it really turns me on. Maybe this is because my father didn’t accept my sexual orientation and lifestyle, and I can imagine these young twinks have had similar relationships with their dads, so it makes me feel like a real mentor for these newbies when I can show them and encourage them to find their own set of fantasies in order to define and then provide fantasies according their own hot gay list of fantasies.